As a man, there is no better feeling than when she loves you for who you are. No man wants a woman whose love isn’t genuine or whose love is only motivated by superficial reasons.
When a woman is true about her feelings for you, there are certain positive signs she lets out. A lot of men (successful ones especially) are scared of today’s women, because their love could be inconsistent or backed by other reasons.
Every decent man deserves a woman who would love him truly for who he is, and these signs below show a woman who would love a man for whom he is.
1. SHE’S HERSELF
First, before she can love you for who you are, she also has to love herself and be herself when with you. Originality attracts originality; but, when she can’t be herself or put up acts that she wouldn’t ordinarily then that’s a woman whose love is backed by other reasons. Any woman who’s original with you is definitely a woman who would love you for who you are.
2. SHE DOESN’T COMPARE YOU TO OTHER MEN
Ordinarily, comparisons show that you aren’t really comfortable with how you are and you would prefer to be like someone else. A woman who loves you for who you are wouldn’t compare you to other men.
3. SHE TELLS YOU THE HARD TRUTH
A woman who loves you for who you are would tell you the hard truth, no matter what. She does this simply because she wants the best for you and wouldn’t have it otherwise. It isn’t nagging or complaining, it’s her telling you the honest truth to make things better for you. More importantly, she doesn’t do this in anger, hate or enmity, but she does it with love in her heart.
4. SHE VALUES YOUR OPINION
A woman who loves you would care about what your think, and she would value your advice and opinion. She loves to hear your opinion about things that are vital to her and she values your opinion when it’s given. She knows you are an important person in her life and she treats you thus.
5. SHE ALSO SHARES IN YOUR BAD TIMES
There’s this saying that ‘it’s only in your bad times you would know who truly cares’. Anyone can love you when things are going right for you, but it’s only a woman that loves you for who you are that can stay and be supportive of you during the bad times.
6. SHE WANTS THE BEST FOR YOU
A woman who loves you for who you are doesn’t totally need you to go beyond your means just to impress her. She cares about your health, your finances, your career and everything that matters to you.
7. SHE PUTS IN GENUINE EFFORTS TO MAKE YOU HAPPY
A woman whose love is very much conditional cares more about her happiness than so many other things. But a woman who loves you also cares about your happiness and puts in genuine efforts to make you happy.
8. SHE WOULD TRY TO MAKE YOU A BETTER MAN
A woman who loves you genuinely would put in efforts to make you a better man; she would influence you positively and put in positive efforts to make you better. She would give you sound advises and push you to be better. She wants the best for you every time.
9. SHE LOVES YOU IF SHE ACCEPTS YOUR FLAWS
The woman who loves you genuinely understands that there is no perfect human. Even though she would try to make you a better man, she accepts your flaws and loves you in spite of them.
10. SHE ISN’T SELF-CENTERED
This is a huge difference between a woman who loves you genuinely and the one who doesn’t. That is knowing the difference between true love and fantasy. The woman who loves you for who you are doesn’t only think about herself in the relationship; she isn’t just in it for her personal gains, but she puts in genuine efforts for the gain of the relationship.
Do you think your lady loves you for who you are?