Many men have fallen victims to ladies who will tell them “I Love You” meanwhile she doesn’t. Ladies like that are very pretentious and and like to say things that they don’t mean just to deceive guys. But first, understand that action speaks louder than words, hence watch her body language and actions rather than listening to her words of which maybe deep down in her mine you are a no body to her.
The following 9 guidelines below will help you understand when a girl is just playing you around for a fool.
1. THERE IS NOTHING EXTRA
Love isn’t an ordinary emotion; it always creates something extra. But a woman who pretends to love you wouldn’t bring anything extra; she’s only about talks but brings nothing as regards action.
2. SHE LEAVES EVERYTHING FOR YOU
When in a relationship with a woman who says she loves you but acts otherwise, you would notice that you do everything; from communication, to love and affection, to care, to being supportive — it’s all on you, and what do you get in return?
3. SHE’S EMOTIONALLY DISCONNECTED
With love comes an emotional connection between two hearts; it can’t be faked, it’s either there or it isn’t. A woman who’s emotionally disconnected from you but claims to love you is only living a life of pretence.
4. SHE’S HERE AND THERE
Love is constant; it comes to fore every day. But a woman whose love isn’t genuine would claim to love you today but won’t show anything tomorrow. Her feelings for you are inconsistent.
5. SHE ALWAYS HAS AN EXCUSE
With such a woman, there’s usually an excuse for everything. She gives an excuse for why she wasn’t there for you, an excuse for why things aren’t working, and an excuse for why she isn’t all that loving. There is just an excuse for everything.
6. SHE WANTS SO MUCH FROM YOU AND OFFERS LITTLE IN RETURN
A woman like this would ask for so much from you but offer very little in return. She would want your world but won’t give hers; she would want you to be there for her always but won’t be there for you. The work and commitment of the relationship would heavily lie on your shoulders.
7. THE RELATIONSHIP ISN’T A PRIORITY TO HER
When you value something, it becomes a priority to you; whether it’s a material thing or immaterial, it would become a priority to you. A woman who doesn’t really love you wouldn’t make the relationship a priority to her, and don’t be surprised when irrelevant things win her heart over the relationship.
8. SHE’S TOO SELFISH
A woman who doesn’t really love you would be selfish towards you and the relationship. She would want the relationship to be about her, always. She would be self-centered and try to make the relationship revolve around her.
9. SHE FLIRTS WITH OTHER MEN
A woman who doesn’t really love you would flirt with other men and give you silly reasons why you shouldn’t be offended. She just doesn’t take the relationship serious, or your feelings and emotions.If says she loves you and put up these acts, you really need to be careful — she just might not love you.